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Committing sins and not feeling any guilt.
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Having a hard heart and no desire to read the Quran.
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Feeling too lazy to do good deeds, e.g. being late
for salat
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Neglecting the Sunnah.
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Having mood swings, for instance being upset about
petty things and bothered and irritated most of the
time.
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Not feeling anything when hearing verses from the
Quran, for example when Allah warns us of
punishments and His promise of glad tidings.
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Finding difficulty in remembering Allah and making
dhikr.
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Not feeling bad when things are done against the
Shariah.
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Desiring status and wealth.
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Being mean and miserly, i.e. not wanting to part
with wealth.
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Ordering others to do good deeds when not practising
them ourselves.
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Feeling pleased when things are not progressing for
others.
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Being concerned with whether something is haram or
halal only; and not avoiding makroo (not
recommended) things.
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Making fun of people who do simple good deeds, like
cleaning the mosque.
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Not feeling concerned about the situation of
Muslims.
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Not feeling the responsibility to do something to
promote Islam.
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Liking to argue just for the sake of arguing without
any proof.
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Becoming engrossed and very involved with dunya,
worldly things, i.e. feeling bad only when losing
something in terms of material wealth.
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Becoming engrossed and obsessive about ourselves.
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Recite and ponder on the meanings of the Quran.
Tranquility then descends and our hearts become
soft. To get optimum benefit, remind yourself that
Allah is speaking to you. People are described in
different categories in the Quran; think of which
one you find yourself in.
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Realize the greatness of Allah. Everything is under
His control. There are signs in everything we see
that points us to His greatness. Everything happens
according to His permission. Allah keeps track and
looks after everything, even a black ant on a black
rock on a black moonless night.
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Make an effort to gain knowledge, for at least the
basic things in daily life e.g. how to make wudu
properly. Know the meanings behind Allah's names and
attributes. People who have taqwa are those who have
knowledge.
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Attend gatherings where Allah is remembered. In such
gatherings we are surrounded by angels.
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We have to increase our good deeds. One good deed
leads to another good deed. Allah will make the way
easy for someone who gives charity and also make it
easy for him or her to do good deeds. Good deeds
must be done continuously, not in spurts.
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We must fear the miserable end to our lives; the
remembrance of death is the destroyer of pleasures.
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Remember the different levels of akhirah, for
instance when we are put in our graves, when we are
judged, whether we will be in paradise or hell.
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Make dua, realize that we need Allah. Be humble.
Don't covet material things in this life.
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Our love for Subhana Wa Ta'Ala must be shown in
actions. We must hope Allah will accept our prayers,
and be in constant fear that we do wrong. At night
before going to sleep, we must think about what good
we did during that day.
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Realize
the effects of sins and disobedience- one's faith is
increased with good deeds and our faith is decreased
by bad deeds. Everything that happens is because
Allah wanted it. When calamity befalls us- it is
also from Allah. It is a direct result of our
disobedience to Allah.